Episode 619: Sam Parr ( https://x.com/theSamParr ) and Shaan Puri ( https://x.com/ShaanVP ) do a post-mortem on a fight they had yesterday.
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Show Notes:
(0:00) Fights don't start as fights
(9:08) Gottman's Fourhorseman of the Apocalypse
(11:28) The magic ratio of 5:1
(15:42) The body keeps the score
(19:36) No winners in war
(24:19) Mistaken attribution
(26:40) Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy
(29:17) The cardinal sin is measuring
(32:55) The best relationships are bigger than you
(40:00) Identify the skill issue
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Links:
• The Body Keeps the Score - https://tinyurl.com/sf66b2tj
• How to Win Friends and Influence People - https://tinyurl.com/4wbafxyf
• Fight Right - https://tinyurl.com/pdvub4b4
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Check Out Shaan's Stuff:
Need to hire? You should use the same service Shaan uses to hire developers, designers, & Virtual Assistants → it’s called Shepherd (tell ‘em Shaan sent you): https://bit.ly/SupportShepherd
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Check Out Sam's Stuff:
• Hampton - https://www.joinhampton.com/
• Ideation Bootcamp - https://www.ideationbootcamp.co/
• Copy That - https://copythat.com
• Hampton Wealth Survey - https://joinhampton.com/wealth
• Sam’s List - http://samslist.co/
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